Mindfulness, Where do we start?

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Do you ever feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day? That our lives are so
busy we’re just going through the motions, only to have to do it all again tomorrow?

Let’s talk about how to stop moving through life on autopilot and begin to take control of our actions in the present moment. Mindfulness can help us slow down to the here and now and tune into what we are thinking, feeling, and experiencing. Through mindfulness, we gain an awareness of what is happening with our mind (thoughts and emotions) and body (senses) in the present moment.

As we begin to check in with ourselves regularly, we can get to know ourselves better.
Although it may feel like you have no extra time for it, practicing mindfulness doesn’t
have to be complicated or time consuming. The following are tips on how to integrate mindfulness practices into your everyday life.

1. Alter Existing Habits

Let go of the idea that there will be a perfect moment. Instead, we can add mindfulness practices into our routines by slightly altering the habits we already have. For example, while walking to the kitchen, you can dedicate a few seconds breathing and checking in, asking yourself, “What is going on in my mind? How is my body feeling?”

2. Coming Back to Breath

Take a few moments to just breathe. You can keep your eyes open or closed . Focus on how it feels in your body to inhale, filling up your lungs and diaphragm with air. Notice how it feels to exhale, releasing and compressing your ribs into your back and deflating. You can think about the sensations you notice when your body moves with each breath.

3. Relax Your Body

Notice where you’re holding tension in your body and relax those areas. Techniques
like Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) can help with this. Your body needs to feel safe and in control. It needs to feel rooted. An example of PMR is taking a moment to unclench your jaw, opening your mouth slightly. Move to your shoulders. Are they crunched up to your ears and tense? Align your spine with the back of a chair or wall. Or, just sit up straight. Drop your shoulders and squeeze your shoulder blades together, then release.

4. Get to Know Your Senses

We can begin listening to our bodies by paying attention to our senses of sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. Ask yourself, “What do the textures of my clothing feel like? What does it feel like when I rub my hands together?” This can also help center you in the present moment and take you out of feelings of anxiety. Your brain can’t be in two places at once after all!

5. Acceptance

Approach the sensations, thoughts, and emotions you are experiencing without judgment. Notice which thoughts make you feel upset, stressed, agitated, settled, calm or neutral. If judgements happen to pop up, which we can expect, notice the thought, take a breath, and refocus yourself.
Slowing down can be difficult, especially if you have been routinely moving at a fast pace, and are used to intensity, quick moving, and pressures. However, humans need to be soothed, just like babies! This could be slowing down for a hug, feeling the warmth of another, having a snack, or attuning to your body and sitting or lying down. You are deserving of time to connect with yourself and can weave it into small moments in your day. Today, I challenge you to be kind to yourself, your body, and your mind with mindfulness.

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Chiara Gianvito Administrative Staff at Bloom Well Therapy

Written By Chiara Gianvito

Chiara Gianvito (she/her) is a Master of Social Work student working with Bloom Well Therapy. She finds importance in discussing issues related to mental health, wellness, and feminism and has brought her interest in finding ways to care for oneself and others to the writing of this post. She hopes you enjoy reading this as much as she did writing it.

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